Getting Married in Secret

 Getting Married in Secret 

    As a writer and religious student, I often receive messages from girls who secretly marry a boy.  And when their secret relationship fails miserably after a while, she can't express her pain to anyone and suffers from depression.  The disease of secret marriage is on the rise in our society.  So today I want to talk openly with you about getting married in secret.

 So that girls can avoid ruining their lives by making wrong decisions.  Those who marry secretly include both married men and boys.  Here it is very important to understand why boys or men get married in secret ... ??

 We have countless half-religious or self-conscious girls who, when they do not allow a boy to touch their body, come up with a plan to secretly marry the boy in order to prove himself true and to persuade the girl to have sexual intercourse with him.  And often people do not get married out of lust.  The boy explains to the girl that by getting married, it will be permissible for us to talk and meet each other.  We will both be saved from sin and adultery.  Apart from religion, when a married man wants to get a girl's body, he explains to her that we are getting married in secret, which means that we are having sex in secret.  We will tell everyone when the time comes and that time never really comes.  If it does, it brings with it nothing but humiliation and disgrace for all time.

 If playing with bodies was love, the luckiest woman in the world would be a prostitute.

Girls secretly agree to the marriage because they think that in this way they will get the man of their love or choice.  However, they are unaware that the wife or husband is like a reward that brings respect in society.  A relationship made like a thief has no social place.  Living a double life causes a person mental anguish.  I have spoken openly to many religious scholars on the subject of marriage in secret and have come to the conclusion that marriage means declaration.  Don't accept an excuse to create a relationship you can't declare.  Because no matter how many arguments one gives, secret marriage is nothing but self-deception.