Politeness of a Glass Doll

 *MinceMatter"

 A word that has become the most harmful weapon for today's girl ... Called Politeness ...

   In this one word cycle, many girls at first risk their comfort, but then gradually it comes to the point that they have to deal with honor ...

 Some time ago, a Pakistani drama written by Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar became very popular.

 Whose name was میرے پاس تم ہو۔ "I have you!"

 One of the dialogues of this play touched my heart ...

 When the heroine agrees to dance with a stranger in Marwat, (مروت) her husband tells her

  "

I was scared of you for the first time today ... I thought my wife is very weak ... so weak that she couldn't say no to the wrong demands of a stranger !!"

 It is important to say "no" in many places in life.

 Especially for a girl ...

 Remember ...

 Only our محرم very owned or blood relatives are entitled to our politeness مروت.

 And just ...

 I say again

  "And just ..." 

 Apart from him, no non-mahram of this world deserves to come to his senses, thinking that he will not feel bad anywhere.

 We can't break our back on any of his straightforward things ...

 The time has become so clever that the honorable sitting at home goes around for thousands of prescriptions to seduce innocent girls.

 We keep thinking that this will not happen to me ... 

 Or it can't happen to me and in our stupidity everything has happened to us ...

 Girls on the brink of disaster are in this society ...

 We are just like that ...

 And most importantly

 "They don't come down from the sky, they are among us ..." 

 Wake up

 No one becomes your brother by saying brother ...

 Your brother is the only man whom Allah has created and sent ...

  The rest are ways to entertain yourself, so enjoy yourself ...  But then wait for the day when nothing will be left in your hand like slippery sand.

 Well now if the matter is understood and they want to save themselves then what will happen ...

 "Sample" nine "must be said ..." 

 Then a question comes to mind when to say "Absolutely NO"

 So listen

 There is a simple formula ...

   When you feel like someone is entering your comfort zone

   Because it is in your life, you are going to do things that you have never done before in your life, that were beyond your reach ... 

   Or something you can't proudly describe in front of everyone ... 

  "Don't allow anyone to cross the border of your limits .... please!" 

 This is the place when an honorable girl has to give a shut up call to her opponent.

 Or to put it simply, "NO" is ...

 And this "No" can be called anyone ...

 "Anyone ..."

 To those you know ...

 To those who meet ...

 To cousins

 Colleges ...

   Meet the brothers step by step on social media.

 Somewhere in life

 Dare to break someone's wrong mouth.

 Shake hands in such a way that the opponent gets such an electric shock and his hand becomes so paralyzed that he will never dare to move forward again ... 

 In our Holy Book, the Lord of the Ka'bah said

  "O wife of the Prophet! You are not like ordinary women. If you fear Allah, do not be so lenient in speaking that a heart-sick man may be greedy and you say a good thing ..."(Surat al-Ahzab: 32)

 In this verse, the superiority of the mothers of the believers has been mentioned first.  But according to the guided scholars, it applies to all believing women.

 This rule has been reserved by God for all women.

 In other words, our God has set a limit for you to use a harsh tone to speak to others.

   But then what did we do ??? 

   We have set our own standard ... 

 You have to laugh and talk to the person in high position and you have to talk harshly to the person in the rickshaw.

 I have to talk to the admins on social media with a smile and I remember the bar limits of the members.

 If you look sensible, you have to give a good impression, if you are like that, go to hell ...

 We can't show the heart of old Uncle Ji.

 You have to talk to them with love in the same way ...

 It is a different matter that nowadays most of the time Uncle Ji becomes "Pia Ji".

 The man has to make himself look good and decent.  After all, giving impressions to girls is also something ...

 And we are forgotten creatures ...

 Yes, it is also true that most of the girls are using the word 'brother' not out of respect, but out of caution.

 But what is the need for all this?

 The pretense of this politeness مروت...

   In legal relationships where you have to show kindness and flexibility, today's girl has to speak on the basis of her number two rights.

  And where you have to show toughness, there is so much helplessness ... ??? 

 How can you forget that once the mirror of the character is broken, even if you put a million elf's, it will never be able to take root ... 

 "You can't be so weak in this one word" Marwat "cycle that someone plays with you and you keep giggling like a soaked cat ..."

 Sorry in advance for the harsh words ...

 But there is a big lesson in this ...

 If you understand

 Or

"If you want to understand ...